9 Adhd Parenting Tips
January 14th, 2008Parenting can be very stressful for anybody, even with children not suffering from ADHD. Children suffering from ADHD have a much shorter attention span than other children and also get angry much easier.
Parenting through these difficulties will help raise a happy, healthy child. Here are 9 ADHD parenting tips to help you cope with and support your ADHD child.
1. Start by laying down the rules which are consistent and easy to follow. It is best for both parents to agree on and follow the rules so as not to confuse the ADHD child.
2. Establish set routines. All children enjoy following a routine, this is especially true for children suffering from ADHD. You should lay down the rules and tell them when they need to do certain things. Your child may have a short attention span, and so you have to be aware of this. Put a limit on the amount of time your child can play games, listen to music or watch television. By sticking to these rules your children get some extra time to think by themselves.
3. Dish out the chores. This will not only make your life a lot easier, but it will also give your children something to do. Make sure you reward your children for a job well done, perhaps a gold star is more than enough. Show them how the task should be completed.
4. You need to prioritize. Make sure all of the important things get done. If your child doesn’t do something unimportant then don’t get too worked up about it
5. Teach time management skills. ADHD children can benefit tremendously from learning the art of prioritization and time management. Often the child does not yet understand how to make these types of decisions. For older children utilize a planner or electronic organizers.
6. Break tasks down. Children with ADHD may not be able to stay focused on one task, especially if it is a large one. Break down each task into smaller, more manageable pieces. This will reduce the frustration level of you and your child.
7. Patience is a virtue. Raising ADHD children requires lots of patience. Don’t get overwhelmed when certain tasks aren’t completed, just make sure you reward them when a job is completed.
8. Make sure you improve your communication with your child. You should spend time with them. Allow yourself plenty of time to talk with your child and get to know them. Try to encourage them to communicate as this will serve them well in later life.
9. Lead by example. You should show your child how they should behave, don’t expect them to do one thing while you do another. No matter what you say your child will always try to emulate you.

